Love is art-making

Thanks for Aris's response to the previous post.

Yeah, love is art-making and the commitment from both parties is important during the process of art-making.

A man can and will influence, or let's say, sculpt and shape, the man he is committed with into something far beyond beauty can describe. And nobody will know how big the influence can be, or how great the sculptor can be. The change is not foreseeable before the relationship, or tangible during the relationship, or even retraceable after, unfortunately, the realtionship ends.
(let's hope every couple can always work out a solution to keep their relationship going.)

It's also like a process of learning. Two people in a relationship should always learn from the other the positive quality that himself does not have, and at the same time help other other achieve something that the other can't do by himself.

There is always something new to learn. It doesn't mean when one thinks he has learnt everything, he should end this relationship. It only means these two persons are getting closer and closer to each other, and more and more compatible for a lifetime companionship.

In my opinion, there is no such thing as "being sick and tired of the other half." There is only something exciting that you miss from the other half.

Who would be sick and tired of his own work of art, anyway?
One can never be proud enough of it.