Personality

A breakup can change a man's personality and make him do and think in a totally different way from before. These new behaviours are not normal, and do not represent the real personality of the man during his happy times.

During a man's most fragile moments, he would do things to protect himself, to make himself feel cared for and to make himself feel in control. Sometimes these behaviours will backfire, causing so many more problems that he wishes he hasn't done those things.

Constant rejections will aggravate these behaviours. Miserable as he is, he will feel that he is not accepted or welcomed. He will start to think he is the one that's causing the anger and rejection, the instigator of everything.

When his life is back on track and in the way he wants it to be, or when he is happy again, his behaviours will become normal again.